Prayers to the Lord, our God.
This year is the Celebration of Parenting..
366 Days of Learnings of Parenting
Thank you Carolyn for making us parents ❤️.
From here on , I shall put down the few learnings and episodes which we shared with you especially the “firsts”.
And let’s see if this helps to make our bond be more strong.
|DAY||About you||Something new.|
|0||19 April||Contractions begin and I try to be as much calm as possible. You did great helping me do that. Finally after trying to push u a lot so we could share same birthday you had plans of your own. Ha ha ha|
|1||20 Apr mon||finally at 2am u sweet angel came on my lap. Honestly tht time I had no feeling at all. As I was just hoping everything goes normal and smooth. By God’s and your graceit did. I was a bit skeptical of u will tk my milk or I cn breastfeed u but u did great my love. And by next day we had our bonding. This was after your daddy and nurses tried a lot to get you to me and we have the connection.
|2||21 Apr tue||Had a very pleasant and beautiful stay at hospital. Since u came at 2am on 20th I got an additional day stay offer. And we had your new born photoshoot of 48hours.|
|3||22apr wed||the next day we got discharged and we had our lunch at the hospital and got u home. Now this moment I won’t forget as that moment a sweet melodious song came.into my ears and finally I cried thinking about you and getting u home. This was really special moment for me as I felt that I’m mom now and for u totally responsible. https://youtu.be/COV1a8T5PDg|
|4||23 apr thu||now this day was little memrabyas well….I started getting heavy pain and I realii didn’t take care of me …sad face. I wasnt able to recover the way I wanted to moreso I had severe severe constipation. Hahhah. Laugh but not something I could do tht time. I felt horrible. Hehehe. Pallavi masi gave food. It was really nice and tasty .|
|5||24 apr fri||now this day was your first Ped appointment. And it went well. Doctor over the video call said you are doing well with the breastfeeding. And I was getting enough for you . Let’s see how to goes further. Pain was a lot by now and I had almost given up as two times the pain became more. Birth pain and constipated stomach. I was just hoping I get past his phase as soon as possible. Thankfully it started working on Saturday onwards when I took the antibiotics .|
|6||25 apr sat||we are very happy we r keeping a log of you for whole 24 hrs. And this has helped us to track your feeds and other things.|
|7||26 Apr sun||finally I’m back on my mojo. Had a lovely hair wash and I’m so glad yourdaddy can be with me for another week without work
Yipee. All’s well. Rochit chatted for about 2hrs and had good time..
|8||27 Apr mon||Planned one week photoshoot for you. Hopefully it goes well. And we had nice nap plus you re giving no trouble at all.|
|9||28 Apr tue||the photoshoot went well. We have planned dresses photoshoot as well..so let’s c. Also daal lauki and rice today. Yes we had paneer sabji. Trying to make without spice. We did swim wear photoshoot. Your feed increased today. Came to know two people who you share your birthday with. Modern Singh’s baby boy and Bhavani one boulevard apartment friend.|
|10||29. Apr wed||Ped appointment. Your diet has increased from today . We noticed . So I have to increymilk supply. Started manual pumping which could make it enough for you. Let’s see how it goes. U slept more the last night. We had pav bhaji and chicken mayo with raw banana chips.|
|11.||30 Apr thu.||10day for u. We had groceries from Costco and 99. I made paneer. U are very hungry today..ur diet has increased.|
|12||1may||baby book has been started . Your hard disk is getting filed with ur memories.
Swim wear shoot
And more videos will h coming soon.
Mother days is what I’ve planned to do YouTube channel inauguration.
|13||2 may sat||oiur rouitine has bnecomje of food…idli for bf, egg b hurji foir lunch, chickjen mayo for dinjner. rest ncludes
trying to make a diet chart includfing everythinghthat can help yoiu wityh getting all nutrients
|14||3MAY SUN||Expected date of arroival. but u came early in our life. we r blessed to have you on 20th of 2020. MAJOR WORK starting todayu, got the whte boad to rt tracig y schedulke and food intake to have balanced diet.
daddy wert to ofc for prints for youir baby book album.
|15||4 may mon||Today you are 2weeks old. Will do another photoshoot. Yaay. Just love clicking your pics. And see the change everyday . Had your doctor’s appointment today morning. So you lost weight ….sad face. Now I HV to do more to make your weight proper. I do not wish to give you formula. ..do will try to feed you more. Hopefully your diet increase n weight too. Pls pls eat. I think my milk is not fatty enough for you|
|16||5 may tue||your umbilical cord fell today . We r so happy soon you will get your first bath. Your two weeks old and we r do I ng average. Yes we are tired inspite of you cooperating with us so much. Thanks for your support. We love you a lot. I m having melt downs . Sorry|
|17||6 may wed||lot of breakdown still happening. Daddy n I not able to communicate well. Ur second week photoshoot was just you ..we couldn’t come in the pics. Daddy has gone to get the weighing machine and then to Walmart. I was making the chart for the chores and food. Food intake is morning idli chutney. Then lentils with lauki . Take two bowls of it. I add ginger powder, suanf powder, kasoori Methi, Hing for your good digestion. If ur poo is good ..I’m happy since I feel a lot for those who are not able to. And therefore I have ajwain water and Methi water for milk production. Your birth weight has still not reached and we do not wish to give you formula as it’s just artificial. Your doc is adamant to give u but we r reluctant. Please gain weight fast so we cn have better mood. Earlier for the first two weeks we were giving u feeds as per demand basis and since you nicely slept for the night we also had nice God night sleep. But after doctor has continuously told us to feed you 8 times per day. With both breast and bottle top we have started giving you scheduled feeds .we have to increase ryour weight else you will have grwoth issues…which we do not wish to see. Pls pls grow in weight. Mother Mary help us.|
|18||7 may thu||finally good news you have put on weight and doctor is happy. We r trying to eat healthy and nutritious food. Zucchini egg omlete. Brocolli. Bread. Lettuce. Chicken mayo. Mushroom matar curry. Chicken wings curry. Main ingredients of the masalas are…jeera, garlic, kasoori Methi, ginger powder and saunf powder. Using these we r making food so it’s easy to digest for u. Love u. Yest u blasted poo poo on me. It was fun. This mother’s day il launch ur channel and then as videos in them. Sorry if u don’t like. But we want to keep all memories as much possible for u.|
|19||8 may fri||the day was normal..as we r at home. Daddy has started working. We have dentist appointment tom for me. Made paneer curry. With tomato boiled. Waiting for you to grow up and talk to us.|
|20||9may sat||we r regularly eating idli now. It’s an easy make and light food. Hope u like them as well. Dentist appointment was ok. Nothing to fear. Then daddy went to India Bazar and 99cents for grocery refill. We are trying to make things smooth but sometimes I lose my patience. Hope u get the patience factor from daddy. He’s the most calm person I know. He’s the best. Daddy made nice chicken gravy with chicken wings. Tomato and onion boiled and made gravy.|
|21||10may sun||you are 20days old today. It’s mothers day. Daddy got two lovely cards for us. We also did photoshoot. I made your YouTube channel today. Will try to keep uploading videos which will be your private collection a d whenever you feel like making them public ..it’s your wish. Hope you like this little surprise form your Mommy 😍💕💕
We had brocolli fry. Dal lauki.woth palak garlic tadka. Daddy got an option to move to Canada today. So let’s see where we will be headed. Nothing final yet just doing our research to see if it will suit us.
|22||11 may mon||Today you are three weeks old. We are trying to make one song video for the week. Week 1 was
Mere Ghar aayi nanhi oari
Week 2 you raise me up
Week 3 tu kitni avhi hai by puja masi.
Yest we made kale fry.a
Gave u skin to skin in the afternoon so couldn’t make anything for lunch.
Evening I did. Zuchjni fry, dal tadka , paneer, chicken , idli chutney. Bottles.
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.