Prayers to the Lord, our God.

Happy F.E.A.S.T

       This year is the Celebration of Parenting..

366 Days of Learnings of Parenting

365 Days of Taking Care of you and begin to understand yourself to nurture a new life.

45 Days – Preconceive Knowledge

90 Days – First Trimester Knowledge

90 Days – Second Trimester Knowledge

90 Days – Third Trimester Knowledge

50 Days – PostCare Knowledge

S.No	Day 1 of 366	Wonders of Parenting
Jan 1	Dear Carolyn	Welcome to this world. Thank for making us parents.  Humbleness and patience are two keywords for existence…hope you imbibe them.
Jan 2	Lead by example	My wish is to keep inspiring you and for this I want to as good and happy as I want you to be… love you
Jan 3	Happiness is a BLiss	Living in happiness each moment is the way to live life.
Jan 4	Sometimes ignorance is a bliss	I don’t know baby if I’m able to give you as much knowledge as u need …but I hope to give it as much as possible with books around you
Jan 5	Audio books listening	hope you like the sound of the books and able to understand them little…
Jan 6	Good deeds always pays well..	Always remember good deeds will bring happiness around..
Jan 7	Role Model	I wish to always be an inspiring role model for you..my love
Jan 9	Humble bee	if you crack this code and remain this, your honey will be closer than ever…
Jan 10	live each day to the fullest	living the day  starts with being thankful to God and parents. Completing the required chores. Having healthy meals all day. Gaining knowledge and trying to see how it can be applied. Thanking the God again for the everything we have.
Jan 11	Pleasure in doing everything	TO enjoy and do things makes them more fun. this is one of the things we wish for you to do..hope so
Jan 12	Wise words from wise man	1. Do not educate your children to be rich. Educate them to be happy. – So when they grow up they will know the value of things, not the cost. 2. Eat your food as medicine, otherwise you will need to eat your medicine as food. 3. Whoever loves you will never leave you, even if he or she has 100 reasons to give up. He or she will always find one more reason to hold on. 4. There is a big difference between being human & human being. 5. If you want to go fast – go alone! But if you want to go far – Go together!And in conclusion, The 6 best doctors in the world:- 1. Sunlight 2. Rest 3. Exercise 4. Diet 5. Self-confidence 6. Friends Keep them in all stages of your life & enjoy a healthy life. “Love the people The Almighty sent you, one day He will need them back.”
Jan 13	Reading helps a lot	Always remember sweetie, reading will widen your imagination and make you alive each moment. so never stop reading.
Jan 14	/just want you to be a god person at heart	Having compassion for others is a very rare quality. If you can understand how you can help someone by you being a reason of smile on them , then that is the day you lived well.
Jan 15	Be happy yourself	when it comes to giving hapiness to others its important to be happy within, and if you canb share the feelings with us , surely it will help communicate better.
Jan 16	Always say positive about people	we all tend to forget that all are GOds angels and we should always respect others be it anyone. therefore , always talk positive about anyone, look for the things that will aspire you to be like them.
Jan 17	positive mind leads to positive words	when the mind will be filled with positiv energuy of love then automatically words that will come out will be positive.
Jan 18	good from bad, figure out yourself !!	Watching Tara sharma show for parenting and it has been amazing to just see such a positive mom. i liked one quote from boman irani, he said, do not tell children that dont do this since i have done in my time, its not good. but then they should be allowed to do what they want to do, figure out their own way.
Jan 19	Life is a full circle..	As parents we are going to try to give you experiences that will help you remain healthy and positive. This may include some discipline so when you are old enough to understand , hopefully you be grateful.
Jan 20	Full try to full you	Its important to understand what makes you happy and if possible  be communicative to be able to express yourself to your near and dear ones..
Jan 21	we wanna set you example	we know that children imitate their parents and so hopefully we set a good example for you.
Jan 22	Be an inspiration	Just be inspiring for others..that is what we wish for.
Jan 23	We are the multi taskers	Always nice to see as women being the multi taskers and it’s in our capacity that we can do it. Hope u get that energy as well.
Jan 24	We are all one family	Being one helps . If you want to go fast go alone, if you want to go far go together.
Jan 25	Hard work is more important than talent .	The thing in our hands is hard work. Let’s make sure we do this and give our 100%.
Jan 26	Discipline dear	It’s very important that we teach you to be disciplined an d it might be hard but if you could just know that it’s all for your good….we would love for you to forgive us for being so strict
Jan 27	A little diary	Just Wana have a memory of each little thing you do and share it with us and keep this alive
Jan 28	Making memories	By sharing the experiences you will see on paper will help us know the Outlook from your perspective..that will delight us.
Jan 29	Love your own company	the best way to keep yourself busy is to learn to love our  own company.
Jan 30	Let us know	sweetie, its difficult to confide in someone especially one of your parents, but if you can willlingly can share all your thoughts and emotions , it will really be helpful for us to know what are your desires and wishes as we are always going to be there to love and support you and would like to tell from our experiences if something we feel , you need to know at the right time.
Jan 31	Think before you speak	the more important part being think good . its difficult absolutely to have positive thoughts all the time butu if you can push away as much negative and look at the day with motivating thoughts, you willl always flourish.
Feb 1	My ideals..	if you were to ask me who to be inspired with, i have two names for you, Steve Irwin , and MS Dhoni.
Feb 2	You are your own school	we want you to learn from your experiences…that is the best education you can get and learning from such experiences help you grow the most in life.
Feb 3	Start now	when ver you feel you learnt something new and you wish to apply , do not regret not knowing before instead start implementing now. you will always start from zero no matter whoever is ahead but when your passion and hard work will combine, it will be the best. Noone can stop you from acheiving what you want. The whole universe will help you do it. You ll see.
Feb 4	My healthy diet plan	food for iummunity building warm water almonds oats, chia seeds, egg white, 2 slice bread fruits – guava, orange, banana lunch- gravy , greens, dal, curd, chapati, ghee coconut water light snack- upma, idli, cheels, dosa tomato soup 2 apples dinner- veges, chapati
feb 5	daily diary	your daddy and me are different but we still love each other a lot. we also respect each other a lot and want you to respect us just the way you want to in your own way. we want you to be inspired by us and our habits. there are some things we wish you can learn happily, like a musical instrument, swimming, art and craft etc and most importantly love reading. As we find peace and happiness in doing this all day long.
feb 6	we are there to protect you	we shall always be protecting you and guiding you , hopefully for your own good. it simportant fro you to learn on your own as well, especially from your mistakes, hopefully you come to us for the same guidance that you think we can give you.
Feb 7	Morals begin …dear.Each day new moral learning will be fruitful for you	I Won’t Go To The Temple Again… A daughter went to her father and said… “I won’t be going to Temple anymore..” The father said: “may I ask why?” She said: “when I go there All I see is people on their mobile phones during prayers , some are gossiping, some just are not living with integrity, they are all just hypocrites…” Father became silent, and then said: “OK… can I ask you to do something for me before you make your final decision?” She said: “Yes.. what’s that?” He said: “Plz take a glass of water and walk around the temple 2 times; but you mustn’t let water fall out of the glass.” She said: “yes… I can definitely do that.” Then… She came back and said “it’s done and here is the Glass Of Water” He asked her 3 questions: 1. Did you see anybody on their phone? 2. Did you see anybody gossiping? 3. Was anybody living without Integrity? She Said: “How could I have seen anyone else?…. I didn’t see anything; All I was focused on was the glass and the water within it., making sure the water never dropped.” He told her, “when you go to temple , this is what you should do… you should be simply focusing, thinking and connecting to God, and see how you can progress and help yourself to help others.. this is so that YOU don’t ever FALL in life. ??? The Daughter thanked her father for helping her understand the inner learning of the essence of Our focus with God.
Feb 8	WHat an eventful day…definitely have to log	Here is the list of some of the most eventful happenings of the day….. let me list it down in a sequence that i cn remember and make it like a log of the day and how happy it was. 1. getting up at 815am. 2. having warm water, sweeping, brushing, almonds. 3. freshening up, breakfast- egg white omlete, 2 slice bread, otas , chia seeds, milk , saffron. 4. prepared orange juice fresh, kept the pulp for orange cake. 5. prepping lunch. karela , daal, pulao, chapati. 6. preparing things for bleesings day for you. specially online search of buying things. 7. having lunch , take bath and ready for walk at 2pm. 8. superb day wore no jacket and had a wonderful time with pallavi and sarthak. memory pic with sunshine. 9. came home litte more online shopping ideas for the party. 10. felt tired took one hour rest, only to get up and see Daddy coming homne at 5pm. 11. most wonderful feeling of the day. brought smiles and glitter on my face. 12. had moong daaal dosa , banana vanilla mix, tea . 13 prepped dinner , veg pulao with basmati rice. 14. now comes two most important gift opening of the day. Mike that we got for valentines , it was spelendid experience. 15. buy buy welcome baby gift. there are numerous things in it. all r awsome. 16. went to dollar tree and 99 cents fro decreo and other things shopping and now making a collaborative list of things which are bought and for what purpose. 17. making the cake two kinds round and bread style…lets c how it turns out to be. @930pm 18. Lis tof things bought (already and now ) just to get an idea of checklist of things. PARTY PLANNING TIPS AND TRICKS STEP 1 THEME – Love is in the air. celebrating mom to be, Showers of blessings Evite and guest list. STEP 2 Disposables plates-costco cake plates-dt spoons-walmart cake spoons-dt trash bags-dt zip lock bags-99 cups- walmart small water bot-walmart cold drinks-foodmax cake knife serving spoons bowls table decore table cover 4-dt  (2 food, 1 props, 1 main) 5 sectional dishes on table , cake dish (NEED TO GIVE HEIGHT- dt milpitas soft toys- valentines dt theme boy girl eggs hatching- dt hearts light for cake- dt TABLE SKIRT, TABKLE TOP- filll with circles POPPERS- WALMART mesh decoration – on table top n side- dt venue decore left wall- bonappetit (made with hand- letttering) backdrop-heart shaped tissue flowers ( papers – dt, walmart) tisuer flowers readymade set of 6- 5pkt- dt (red and pink) right wall- games , wish board behind- congrats mom to be baby shower banner rose petals- dance floor-dt photo booth and props table cover -hearts-dt photobooth- dt props- amzon in bubbles pre maternity shoot- board heaert -dt n chalk games – main game -hope photoframe gift-wish writing kid game -3 memory game adult game- 3qs prize – eggs with chocolate goodie bags personalized cup egg with choc for easter to kids jewellery piece for ladies soft toy tissue paper to cover ribbon SHOPPING LIST chart sheets fro wish board – 99 for 2 tissue flowers – 4sets – dt backdrop- wrapping paper caream color – 2 – dt tinsel making- wrapping paper- 99- glitter backdrop stadium look-photobooth-dt fr glitter bottle- 2 dt for circles on showers of blessings tinsel decore- xmas offer – 25each – 8 (50ft)- 99 ribbon roll thin-3 (.25)-99- dtribbon (.25) goodie bag ribbon -(.25) big ribbon set (.25) prop sticks- 99 foam red boards- 2 -99 color pages -36sheets-99 color pages large-2 set -99 glue sticks- 99 children reading n worksheet books, globe blow up, map US- dt fr (very good collection) INDIA LIST ORDERED TODAY memory cards -32gb 389each baloons- heart- 50-115rs baloons normal-160 jewellery set baby hsower banner congrats mom to be- 179 n slash props- 159 double tape- 150 for 3 Step 3 FOOD PREP—PLACK CARDS and table cover Menu 1. chips, cold drinks -start 2. starters- samossas , chilli chicken 3. main course- paneer tikka masala, navratna korma, chicken chettinad, veg biriyani, chiken biriyani, raita, chutney, dessrts- mango fruit custard. CAKE -CAKE TOPPERS
Feb 9	Some teaching	As Buddha says… Only when your “Will” is there then only prayers will be effective but until you find a way to get through those prayers yourself the prayers won’t work .
Feb 10	party planning tips 2	Making the itenary and itenary card Finding a comparer Deciding the games Thank you note and speech
Feb 11	Movies I recommend	Kids section starters Jurassic Park series Jumaji part 1 Teens Legally blonde
Feb 12	Book morals	so  I decided i am gona read to you when you come and keep a record of all things you learn from it and you keep expanding it as you wish when you start reading and writing. I would love to read the things you will write and know you rperspecive if eah thing you discover yourself.
Feb 13	Gratitude	A very small and humble request to you dear children, we may not be able to give you asll the wordly pleasures that are available. If there is one reason that I have learnt and loved your daddy the most is because i fing him the most grateful for all things he has and this has been from the time he has born. This is the reason that we wish for you all to go to church and learn to live a life full of gratitude and always be thankful for each and every thing that you have , no metter if its old or new, no matter if its used or unused, as long as you are protected by us, we shall take care of you all with utmost care and love.
Feb 14	Love means care	Love of Valentine’s day It’s love, ? when father makes time for his wife and children. It’s love, ? when a mother gives her children the best piece of cake. It’s love, ? when husband makes tea for his wife and takes a sip before her. It’s love, ? when wife sends her love in the dabba for her husband. It’s love, ? when (very rarely) children put their energy to give their parents a head massage. It’s love, ? when (very often) your friend holds your hand tightly on a slippery road. ?Love is when you send a small msg to your friends to make them smile and you are thereason for it. ? ? Love ? is actually another name for CARE ? Enjoy this Valentine Day 2020 …? with Lots of Love ~ Conrad, Prachi and Monteiro Jr. ?(our special Valentine this year)
Feb 15	Memories Make	Say thanks to the Lord for each day and make memories by writing each day the positives of being you in this beautiful world.
Feb 16	our valentine date	so this was an unexpected impromptu date night dinner for your daddy and me and we will remember this forever as next time we are going to celebrate this special day with you. Cant wait to meet you and doll you up evreyday.
Feb 17	valentine greet n meet	God sends his angels whenever needed and we are thankful to Him for such miracles..we had our car battery breaking Down twice now and both times someone came out of the way to help. Sunday brunch at Shilpa house.
Feb 18	Monday stay over	We stayed back at Shilpa house and had wonderful time. Hope ur having fun reading my blogs as well.
Feb 19	daddy all rounder	hi baby, your daddy is such an all rounder , i cant tell you. he amazes me by showing all acts of kindness towards the home and me. he does electrician work, all handyman work, and recently i discovered he does sewing so well, even better than me. i wonder what more tricks he has upto his sleeve. i love him and hope you leanr a lot from him.
feb 20	making u all rounder	how do we try fro this…ok so i ve made an organizer to keep few notes on things that you migth like to learn and lets see how that goes. it will also contain exxtempwords so you can work on the talking instantly whenever needed. hope this works well
Feb 21	daisy creepers	we were thinking what can we add to the favor bag and then we thought to add “life” to your blessings in the form of dais creepers. they glow during the day  like sunshine..
FEb 22	rolly polly	there r lots of ups and downs that will come in life. sometimes there will be challenging times involving others and their emotions. although its expected for us to be good all the time but its not completelyt possible. i would wish for you to have fiath in me adn trust me to tell what and how you feel . i will not expect but i would love for you to involve me in the emotional part of your life.
Feb 23	cherishing the memoriers of decoration day nad finally the baby shower day	God sends His angels to look after us.  Hope you get your angels as well.
Feb 24	Assuming.good	wgen you assume the good things will happen it will automatically happen..trust me
Feb 25	Staying healthy	When you are healthy in physical self then you are healthy in mind as well
Feb 26	parenting tips	PARENTS, DONT WORRY ! 1. Don’t worry about your kids not remembering world history ..Teach them your family history..especially family medical history…it will sure help them in need 2. Don’t worry about your kids unable to locate continents and capitals on the world map..Teach them the names of roads around your house and landmarks to reach home from any location of your town 3. Don’t really worry if your kid does not win medals in sports and does not remember who won world cups…Teach them to exercise and stay fit 4. Don’t bother of your kid scoring 100% in mathematics…Teach them to budget their expenses , save for emergencies and transact money at the shops. Let them know of your income, loans, property details.. 5. Don’t make your kids memorise and recite hundreds of slokas, thirukural etc…teach them the meaning of one at a time and how to apply in daily life 6. Don’t try to push kids into becoming big musicians or dancers and win competitions..Teach them to enjoy and appreciate music , so they know how to relax when they are in stress. 7. Don’t compel kids into driving their own bicycles or scooters because others are doing so…If they like to take the school bus to spend relaxed time with friends or a public transport , let them do so.. 8. Don’t worry if your kids don’t eat every item you cook..Teach them to make their own sandwich…they will relish it more than what you made.. 9. Don’t push your kids to read and memorise autobiographies of Mahatma Gandhi or Saina Nehwal…Teach them to write their own biography…They will then want to make their life interesting and worth writing .. 10. Don’t compel your kids to socialize ..Teach them how to make their life interesting with less dependency on others. 11. Don’t impose religious activities on your kids…Teach them the relevance of each and help them to become spiritual..Spirituality is the key to keep themselves and also people around them happy.. Remember, a Parent’s only goal for their kids is to keep them HAPPY.. You don’t need to spend a lot of TIME, ENERGY , SPACE or MONEY to reach that goal of HAPPINESS…Teach your kid to be HAPPY with the available resources.
Feb 27	tuesday log	as the day progressed with all normal eating , there was a little dehydration , so i landed up in pallavis house which made me more happy. she fed me with vermicille and tea and aloo paratha and lovely cold pineapple slices. this was the forst day i felt pampered and that to from someones else house. hahahaha
FEb 28	very very positive days beginning	the best way to feel positive is to start cleaning and organinzing . i started this activity from arranging 1. my craft, art and stationery supplies.  2. kitchen arranging and replacing old sheets. 3. next came the wash basin , make up, accesories supplies. finally did that. 4. moving on, making a list of all baby products is todays task.  each day one activity keeps mind occupied and helps to have a clean start.
Feb 29	leap year countdown	cant wait to meet you. friday fun. last night we weent to 99 cents, new india bazar, foodmax and target. had supoerb fun with daddy. for lunch made methi, mushroom, baigan, dosa batter. cleaning task – closet , coat closet and bedroom this weekend

SNO	STUDY TIME	WORK
mar 1	weekend clean up	after a nice relaxing enjoyable rehauling the closet and bedroom cleaning, we are starting with studies in pre-k. contents for the pre-k Family tree kids encylopedia pictionary
Mar 2	starting of something new	trying to make u leanrn with this , hopefully. starting with this set syallbaus for a month. lets see how it goes. wil give u upodates each day. Today one kid  with writing abc.  homework – to write captial AND SMALL LETERS
Mar 3	puja classs reinstated	this is a tribute to my sis who has been my inspiration to leanr and alwayts make sure to give our best and stand up on our feet with only one weapon ie knowledge.
Mar 4	Knowledge has power	They say ” do good” so goodness will come back to you, little tweaking it, i believe, “:think good ” and GOd will automatically take care of everything
Mar 5	Schedule for march month	9am morning warm water with amla. 1030 lunch and bath 1100 class for one hour 12300 sleep for 45 min 130 lunch 200 walk 330 free option of yoga/ craft work. fruits. snacks’ 730 dinner 1000 sleep
Mar 6	Daily Log	Little exhaustion. so lying down more frequently. wil be making one thing only from now on. third trimeseter going quite well, yes i wil take  more restr from now on. its the 31st week, nd i pray that you are safe inside me till the time the cure comes. Apetite has incresed so i broke it down to lunch part 1 and 2. one i take before walk and lie down for a while and other one i take after walk to fill myself with energy. one coconut warer bottle everyday and little fruit that encompasses the meals.
Mar 7	65 days to go	what difference ive noticed: feeling little more sleepy feeling little more exhaution feeling little more scrachy around the tummy side feeling more tasty food cravings like cake, noodles, manchurian. all different types of full thali like gujrati, bihari, sadhya, Punjabi etc. veg taheri n boondi raita
Mar 8	Happy women’s day ❣️	Cleaning little. All set. Now working on your closet.
Mar 9	Happy Holi	today’s log is the Sunday spent. Daddy had to go ofc for his release. Mommy started her day usual. With onion paratha as the new flavors today. Then I made Methi aloo palak and enjoyed with paratha. Ginger special tea and finishing the day with good rest in the afternoon and followed by good night sleep at night.
Mar 10	daddy wfh	monday orange delight , noodle prep, aloo palak, teheri, zuchini poizza
Mar 11	tuesdayt updates	i was oin roll…doctors viosit, heard youir heartbeat., recoirded it, then targetr, uops store, tmobile store, foodmax, hgope thrift , 99 cents. all ion one day. then madfe spagetti n masnchuriasn , lovced it likle madly.
Mar 12	Wednesday log	got up late, Daddy made egg bhurji for me, I prepared teheri again and Manchurian also again as we both were getting taste. Need to take care of my calories now. Doctor visit alarmed us to keep track of what and how much I’m eating. It’s a bit too much. Walk with Daddy in the evening. Fremotb hub .
Mar 13	thursday log	second time manchurian , raw b an an a an d briocoilli bhaji.baigan gravy. planned movie niught on friday with desserts (gulab jamnuin, nmamak pare )
Mar 14	Friday log	morning roiutine , new in dia bnazar, a whoopinjg 100 dollar buy (made video), 99 cents , all veges an d snacks strocked. (for emerghency) gobhji nand onion paratha. loved the different lunch. esp with white butter. made oran ge cake . had tea party at pallavi , made kachoiri chaat. (mint chutn ey, onion,. aloo, methji chutney. sev) movier niught wioth potluick polanned again  fro saturdasy., hope all goes well. dinner made spagertti again. daddy loved it. i also want to record the times ivbe felt special during preghancy. when someone offers to gfo ahead in  line. one timne i removced advantage of being pregnent, last satuirdsay we went to india bazar and dsarey soy sauce got over in their aisle so i requested imn gertting tastre of havcing noodles can u pls get the soy sauced from back, ands than kjfully the lady manmger was very kind and un derstood myt plea and b roiught the soy sauce. il remember this one as i asked in  thge n ame of pregn=ancy. hga ha ha
Mar 15	saturdfsay log	potluicvk to night with movie n ighgt at pallavi. carrot hjalwa made stanfdionjg 3 hrs. with starters , beertroot and siuji squares. took hair bathj, felt fresh., weathjer rain ty tofdsay full dsay.
Mar 16	Weekend planning and preparing	So our Sunday began with getting a drying rack for hanging your clothes after hand washing. Then we headed towards Costco for milk, eggs, and some sale items . Then we headed to India Bazar for exchanging coconut and got few more things. Then we headed for foodmax but water was not available. So came back home and ate rice daal. Then I got taste of dabeli and made with bread toast and it taste awsome. Now m planning to do some creative way to cover your closet . Let’s see how it turns out to be. Best use of magazines.    n im planning to redo the closet
Mar 17	Monday Log	arbi and aloo methi. roti daal rice. runm to 99 cents and walk to dollar tyreretro decoratre closet. staRTED WORKING ON IT
Mar 18	tuesday log	wonderful dayt. coinrad didf cleasning whjicvh i liuke at the beginnming of thge day. then we both m,ade breakfast (egg bhurji, brerasd, oatrs), and lunch (caBBASGHE, DAAL RICVE ROTI ). WE WENT TO FILL WATERE AND COISTCVO (CURD ERTC), 99 CENTRS. I WENMT TO WALK WEITH PALLAVI TO DOLLAR STORE , GOT THINGS TOI DECORATRE cloiset)coimpletred front sdiode of it. had the firest lkoad of clothes washed for yoiu. now have to oreganijze it introi cuibbys.
Mar 19	Wednesday log	day started with finishing the plumbing gwork of kitchen. Archana gave breakfast so bad heavy lavish gobhi paratha. Then rested and had chat with  Shilpa and Shashi on group call. Then one hour call with avavni. Then already made bhindi, roti, daal for lunch. Had that. Then went to India market for little strol and did no shopping. Then went to Pallavi house and lovely carrot halwa. Enjoyed the time and you heard voilon being played and kicked. Hahaha. Now triy g to start the cubby work of the organizong your closet space.
Mar 20	Thursday Log	Fishies FRIENDS polus sheldon and shrek (algae eater) today is oe of our dream days comew true. got 8 children. loving them.
Mar 21	friday log	hadf a wonderful visit to livermore for teaching relteed flash cards, then to hayward for werapping paperthen new in dia bazar fro some basic pav bhaji masdala needs . wondewrful day. felt little contreactions loike menmstrual type cramps fro a while aroiund 12pm
Mar 22	saturday log	till afternoon we didf cooking – chole , vermicillki kheer, arnbi b hajio. planned to inv uitre pallavi family, but didnt work oiut. went top walmart to ger diustilled waeter fore fishies ansd then 99 for exchan ge things. evening nice qualityt timew with dsaddyt an d then  researechging ion buying things for u. slept well. majhor updsate- starting to get /feel crampbe indicating that yoiu are preapring to com now.  told family abouit asdopting 8 fishies and so happy we are enjotying ansd wish yoiu do as well.
Mar 23	Sunday log	Doing things in routine be really helps . We have purmorning usual bfast routine. Then group calls from India and friends got connected. Had special Manchurian and collected baby things. Wipe warmer diaper genie carrier n got water filled.
Mar 24	Adventurous Monday	Daddy was very king to take us for long drive ..we went to Castro valley for mini fridge, then headed towards San Ramon for grinder ,then we went to get the red rug from Tracy and finally Livermore for portable snuggle baby for you. It took 4hours ,Daddy got tired and we had fun. After coming we ate cabbage carrot peas bhaji, daal rice roti paoad. Had a wonderful time. Enjoying every bit of being with u. Last night no cramps but last evening little cramp pain. Rest all good. Waiting to meet u.
Mar 25	Gudi Padwa special	Palak rice. Completed closet project. Most of the nursery set up done.
Mar 26	wednesday log	celebnratred gudi padwa festicval b y m,aking nan and paneer lababdsar. then pallavi gavce man o sheerra after her puja nand the bab y enmjoyed it. thanksd Pallavi.
Mar 27	thursday log	rava cake, finiunshed paneer n d methi sabnji. palak riuce foir niught. car seawt and stroller installation learnt, made4 video also.
Mar 28	fridsay lkog	wonderful day with costco run an d india bazar. got lot of things,. gto diapers and wip[esd fr u an d gto nice grocery from indfia baaqr/. then  tookj hed bathj. u r doing great by kicking me. lunch we hasd left over poaslask rice wiothj beans anmd din en r soyas curry woith parathas
Mar 29	Saturday log	Again got the urge to have chole bhature and made and had . Rainy day today. Very heavy food. Enjoyed with coconut bites.
Mar 30	Sunday log	daddy’s release so before up early. Bfast as usual and baigan masala, lake bhaji, khichidi, roti same dinner also.
Mar 31	Monday log	weather was good. Made lunch for UK family. Banana and brocolli bhaji, roti , daal, rice. Had that for dinner also. Got some things from boulevard lady. Very nice toys and other things. Hope to see u using them .

Sno	APRIL AFFIRMATIONS	POST PARTUM IDEAS
Apr 1	Posting 10 affirmations	in order for my baby to look upto me…I shall always have to LEAD BY EXAMPLE. 2. Be strong ( let your inner strength be the most positive powerful force that can gear u up physically and mentally both. Eat well and hence think well.) 3. Always keep your mind busy with some activity ( creative more useful and entertaining)  4. Try to catch two ducks at once. ( May not be possible every time but wait for it oppurtune moment) 5. Brings me to be patient. This is one quality which I don’t have as I’m very impulsive ) so try to not be like me. As being impulsive is good in one way but acting on it without thinking little bit leads to some questionable choices.  6. Don’t feel pity for yourself at all ( there are sooo many people who don’t even have what you have so always always be grateful and feel proud of what’s in store for you. ) 7. When things don’t happen the way we have planned , what He has planned will be the best, is what we can HOPE.  8. Do the most out of those things what is in our control. Things which are not don’t let them overpower you. Hard work is the only key to success as this shall be only key which will be in your hand. (Noone else’s ) 9. Never blame anyone else for your actions. You always have a choice , a choice to do the thing that moment or no. Either choose to do it or not do it.  10. Always be kind and caring. If you want to fast go alone , if you want to go far , go together.    Finally got the taste of soft idli from the batter 1:2 and Methi seeds with ultra wet grinder

No	1 of 90	Third Trimester
Sep 1	Reading Bible passage each day and journaling the understanding. Novena month	Mother’s word are divine and following them makes one strong and humble.
Sep 2	Ganpati Bappa Morya	The one who remains humble gets exalted….
Sep 3	labor Day weekend	Three day holiday and Ganpati Bappa Morya ??. Memory if this day as we felt like you are with us.
Sep 4	Mushroom Masala	Made with love and for someone gives so much happiness
Sep 5	Happy teachers day	children are the source of God.
Sep 6	Sleep is divine	Feeling great with the sleep
Sep 7	Cravings	biriyani
Sep 8	Happy Birthday Mother Mary	Lovely gift from you Mother Mary..thanks for everything.
Sep 9	beautiful week begins	week 7 of the beautiful journey
Sep 10	First vomit of the pregnancy	early childhood education classes began and anniversary of mastek joining.
Sep 11	Lectures day	had Beauty sleep. Feeling ok.
Sep 12	not eating properly	glucose water is the way
Sep 13	blisful night sleep	after 3 nausea attempts could sleep properly
Sep 14	finally a day	Friday morning at 1130. Having wonderful day peaceful and rejoincing. After getting up having rusks helped.
Sep 15	happy Engineer s day	The Solution makers are the ones we call engineer.
Sep 16	happy first appointment	All’s well. Had the first ultrasound.
Sep 17	blessings	Many many heart congratulations for another year.
Sep 18	Gearing up for east coast	getting ready for the trip for a week
Sep 19	Big day	announcements to the family
Sep 20	On an East coast tour	Statue of liberty beautiful experience
Sep 21	New York City Tour	mercimirising experience from hop in hop off
Sep 22	Sunday night Tour	New York and NJ Night view splendid
Sep 23	Niagra Falls	Monday Niagra falls tour
Sep 24	Washington	white house rocks
Sep 25	Atlantic City	Awsome Atlantic city
Sep 26	Philadelphia city	Downtown and sky high building
Sep 27	Indian street Jackson heights	Lot of variety of Indian food
Sep 28	Breakthrough	You have a Purpose and you are loved.
Sep 29	Real deal	Back home recovering
Sep 30	simple food simple living	pakoras are in taste
Oct 1	Novena month	Mother Mary help us
Oct 2	another craving	husband made food
Oct 3	pulao day	curd rice and pulao
Oct 4	Paneer wins	paneer bhurji calling
Oct 5	Love of Methi paratha	Punjabi paratha memories from NY
Oct 6	Chinese it is	gobhi Manchurian and fried rice treat
Oct 7	Dushera Chole Puri	Happy dushera festival
Oct 8	Bread pakora	cravings continue
Oct 9	bread besan toast	another yummy day of bread toast
Oct 10	child Education class	fun and amazing experience
Oct 11	brinjal curry	Flavor of curd in brinjal and potato
Oct 12	poha delight	yummy poha
Oct 13	mix veg paratha	tastes sooo good
Oct 14	bhindi favourite	Indian street new york
Oct 15	panda Panda Express memories	orange chicken and rice
Oct 16	Ave Maria	Mother Mary in our house
Oct 17	French toast	scrumptious delicious
Oct 18	Super strong	atta ladoos
Oct 19	full platter	potluck party food
Oct 20	Dahi vada	yummy vadas
Oct 21	picnic day	shaver lake on
Oct 22	pulao for picnic	mix veg pulao

S.No.	Day 42 of 90	SECOND TRIMESTER KNOWLEDGE
MAY 16	Choose your choice	when you have the chance to choose Don’t you ever loose This is one opportunity for growing ahead This shall keep your motivations rise up from bed
MAY 17	Learn to forgive	When the chance comes learn to forgive as sometimes it becomes difficult. The one who know how to do it is the person you should look up to, since this shall be the starting steeping stone for your paying for your penance.
MAY 18	Making ammends	Sometimes it’s just so difficult to make amends and this brings distance among people. Ensuring that it remains calm and silent makes a big difference.
MAY 19	Explore the place around you	The more you are expressive the better. Go out and explore the world around you..it teaches you a lot.
MAY 20	Happiness is from within	Doing something for someone brings happiness and doing something for yourself brings happiness from within.
MAY 21	Opti-malism	When we see a ray of hope we feel optimistic and this makes our life optimal. When we have our life optimal then we admire everything around us and this creates positive energy. When there is positive energy then everything seems to fall into place.
MAY 22	Library is heaven	when we are in search of a book it means we are in search of heaven for a book can help find all lost hopes and brings imagination into live.
MAY 23	be Inspiring and be inspired	If one aims to be inspiring then nothing can come in the way if their success ladder for they take failures as stepping Stones and praises as driving force to lead by example for others to follow.
MAY 24	Mode of change	One can be a mode of change for being adjustful to situations. This brings change in character and improvises on oneself.
MAY 25	Be the Carrier	If one aims to be the Carrier then automatically things fall into place for they know what it takes to be the medium and the link joining everyone together.
MAY 26	Get Togethers	some feel blessed, some feel bold, some feel emotional and some feel like gold whee they are in get-togethers. so celebrate each moment with each person everywhere.
MAY 27	Recovery	Time tells us to recover No more hiding and in cover Feel good and hover Be always close to your lover. Try and make someone recover.
MAY 28	Let go	When nothing falls into place and journey seems difficult put on your gear shoes and start a new wave new moment. This will help you let go of the previous emotions and help move on.
MAY 29	Job-more	when there is no work go for job more. Find a way to suit your capabilities and be job more. Do the assigned work dedicatedly  and job more. Complete the task and be job more.
MAY 30	Celebration mood	When there is happiness around then we must celebrate and when there is nothing to celebrate then we must be happy.
MAY 31	Optimal	Being optimal and being subjective and being cooperative.
JUNE 1	smiley	keeping a smiley face keeps you healthy more.
JUNE 2	I want to show you how life is with you..each day and everyday	If life is sleep you at my dream…
JUNE 3	I want to show you how life is with you..each day and everyday	If life is a journey..you are my road..
JUNE 4	I want to show you how life is with you..each day and everyday	If life is a book …you are my words..
JUNE 5	I want to show you how life is with you..each day and everyday	If life is a seed ..you are my plant..
JUNE 6	I want to show you how life is with you..each day and everyday	If life is a plant you are my fruit..
JUNE 7	I want to show you how life is with you..each day and everyday	If life is food …you are my salt and desserts..
JUNE 8	I want to show you how life is with you..each day and everyday	If life is a movie ..you are my Hero..
JUNE 9	I want to show you how life is with you..each day and everyday	If life is a Flower ..you are my petals.
JUNE 10	I want to show you how life is with you..each day and everyday	If life is a class you are my nerd ..
JUNE 11	I want to show you how life is with you..each day and everyday	If life is a sea you are my boat..
JUNE 12	I want to show you how life is with you..each day and everyday	If life is summer and winter you are my shade and coat respectively..
JUNE 13	I want to show you how life is with you..each day and everyday	If life is a a body.. You are my soul..
JUNE 14	I want to show you how life is with you..each day and everyday	If life is nowhere you are my only Hope..
JUNE 15	Humanly possible	If nothing works just do what’s possible for you
JUNE 16	Rise up and Shine	When there is happiness inside be the happiness around …rise and shine.
JUNE 17	Master of your own	when you master your own self like what your body needs and how your body is functioning you will become key to your mind.
JUNE 18	majority in your work	when your work speaks then nothing else is required for speaking.
JUNE 19	Mostly happy	keep maximum amount of time as happy and realize that happiness within you.
JUNE 20	Surprise Yourself	When the moment comes surprise Yourself .
JUNE 21	Sudden Steep	when there is sudden high there is sudden Steep and when one can handle both then is victory for sure.
JUNE 22	Another Day	each day passes and each time new day comes..what’s important is to spent the day such wonderfully that everything looks satisfying at the end of the day.
JUNE 23	New Day	when there is beginning if the new day…the new set of goals are in the mind and those motivate us during the day .
JUNE 24	Happiness Around	Glow in the face keeps the glow around..this is how keep the happiness flowing around.
JUNE 25	Easy as Easy	if everything is easy then everything becomes easy..
JUNE 26	Experience it	Giving advice is easy but to experience it on ourselves on the same advice  is the key..
JUNE 27	Every soul has a dream	We all have dreams and each of us have a way of fulfilling them depending on our life cycle.
JUN 28	Magnanimous	There are times when you feel nobody but in those times we need to keep ourselves calm composed and clean such that we our behavior reflects our character.
JUN 29	Live upto	When we don’t have any idols then the best ideal is be the idol and Iive upto our own expectations.
JUN 30	Major in	There will be situation when we wont be able to decide in what we major in , at this time we need to learn from our present and see ourselves enjoying the future.
JUL 1	Dream Projects	Imagining situation which can make up our fairy world and make us believe to live in them.. here goes few of them.. Flying cars are one way to go
JUL 2	Dream Projects2	Imagining a world of dream projects such as capturing the sense of smell and storing it to find which one belong where.
JUL 3	Dream Projects	Greater good comes when we act as superheros through our work and one of them can be developing skills and talents by each one of us and exchanging those with each other.
JUL 4	Dream Projects	To be able to fit in the place where we are needed and required and to give our best shall be the dream recruitment.
JUL 5	Dream Projects	When the classroom becomes fun with things that approachable and searchable quickly and help to understand the students faster then the growth will be seen.
JUL 6	Dream Projects	There can be talks of growth and networking where intelligent solutions and applying those solutions become easy.
JUL 7	Dream Projects	Having the capability to change things around us in order to see a better evolution among us can be the dream for someone.
JUL 8	Dream Projects	Learning through playing can be a suggested method of understanding the nature of grasping the knowledge.
JUL 9	Dream Projects	Keeping a balance of technology and real life in such a way that either of them doesn’t lose it meaning in life
JUL 10	Dream Projects	Starting from the womb we can culture the mother through the learnings which can help nourish the life from within.
JUL 11	Dream Projects	Once the baby starts to learn from outside environment we can create an atmosphere of positive learning for them.
JUL 12	Dream Projects	As soon as the baby starts to leave for his companions to play with we can support them by educating them to participate in every activity possible.
JUL 13	Dream Projects	The ultimate goal of attaining happiness shall help one know what exactly the quest is for. So understanding the cause of everyone happiness.
JUL 14	Dream Projects	Understanding emotions and creating a measure for each one of us shall help to scale the level of persons EQ
JUL 15	Dream Projects	Having the ideas and multiplying them for the benefit of others really helps to achieve the desired goal most quickly.
JUL 16	Dream Projects	Each one of us has some uniqueness in us and if we are able to crack it open we shall see we have the power to move the mountains.
JUL 17	Dream Projects	Looking out for someone in the times of their need helps us to know that someone will look out for us at our time of need as well..
JUL 18	Dream Projects	Dreams are like wishes from the genie bottle only this time it’s the rub of our hands so dream or wish something that’s in your hands and capacity to achieve.
JUL 19	Dream Projects	into the future.
JUL 20	Dream projects	Use the SUN to charge yourself
JUL 21	Dream projects	Spread your Energy around
JUL 22	Dream projects	unleash yourself
JUL 23	Dream projects	Lend a ✋
JUL 24	Dream projects	join hands
JUL 25	Dream projects	motivate people around you
JUL 26	Dream projects	bring HOPE
JUL 27	dream projects	leaving legacy
JUL 28	Dream projects	Caring quotient
JUL 29	Dream projects	making Memories
JUL 30	Dream projects	adjoining nature skills
JUL 31	Dream projects	Mars
Aug 1	friendship month	gather all friends who are near you don’t lose them for even if they are new
Aug 2	friendship month	care for each and every one around you and make down hopes of dew
Aug 3	friendship month	if you are new then don’t let the old ones go but if u r old let the new one also glow.
Aug 4	Friendship month	Many of us are blessed with great friends we need to cherish them forever.
Aug 5	friendship month	once a frienship forever
Aug 6	friend month	when you feel low…be with friends and glow
Aug 7	friend month	when in need friends are indeed.
Aug 8	friendship month	Good things come to those who bbelieve in the true friend ship.
AUG. 9	friendship month	when we have the pleasure of doing things free ….we set ourselves free
Aug 10	Friend ship month	the feeling when everything goes as per planned.
Aug 11	friendship month	Never blame anyone for your actions and definitely never regret your choices. Learning to live with them is the key to success.
Aug 12	friendship month	God resides where the home is full of Love
Aug 13	friendship month	Hope anchors the soul and friends fill the hole.
Aug 14	frienship month	daily report One line Sunday morning * church tofu sandwich Sunnyvale dal khichdi chicken. Monday Rajma chawal.
Aug 15	frienship month	Tuesday magazine booked. Mushroom palak.
Aug 16	frienship month	daily chores idli sambhar chutney
Aug 17	friendship month	visiting kids done..bhindi
Aug 18	friendship month	dark sky meteor showers Friday night daal
Aug 19	friendship month	Saturday great church day parade in Fremont fish
Aug 20	Friendship month	out for picnic at Sunnyvale. Las Palmas park. Potluck lunch chole Puri.
Aug 21	friendship month	Conrad cooked chilli chicken .stayed at home
Aug 22	friendship month	Tuesday tmbile offer mystery gift. Beans
Aug 23	friendship month	relax Wednesday mushroom gobhi
Aug 24	friendship month	Thursday marathon for Jane the Virgin. Cookies day
Aug 25	friendship month	Friday ..tofu sandwich. Early to bed
Aug 26	friendship month	CPR class full day Saturday.
Aug 27	friendship month	Sunday afternoon nap. Chicken burgers at lake Elizabeth
Aug 28	friendship month	Monday Chicken burgers.
Aug 29	friendship month	Tuesday idli sambhar chutney
Aug 30	friendship month	Wednesday chickenpalak.
Aug 31	friendship month	rajma rice.

 

 

 

 

JAN 1	Welcoming Womb	Preparing the mind and body for the healthy conception begins with keeping an open mind and being adaptive.
JAN 2	Positive Thinking	Staying positive is the key to bring the new life who entails within.
JAN 3	Emotionally Ready	Becoming parents is one of the gifts from God. This should be one of the high points in their romantic lives.
JAN 4	Being Patient	This need to b built up slowly and gradually for the parents to be.
JAN 5	Setting up	Environmentally and physically consciously applying a healthy lifestyle.
JAN 6	Avoiding Stress	Small and petty things may lead to this. Seamless and smooth transition needs to be made to parenthood.
JAN 7	Go Outside	It restores a sense of balance to mind and body. It helps to connect with nature.
JAN 8	Mindful Meditation	Trying out relaxation techniques helps to focus and strengthen oneself.
JAN 9	Treat Yourself	Looking for options that helps you relax. Enjoying the moment is the underlining statement.
JAN 10	Sleep is essential	Optimum Sleep is must for the body to rejuvenate.
JAN 11	Stimulate the mind	By doing some kind of exercise and/or engaging in some puzzle solving activity.
JAN 12	Smile Plenty	Living the day with a smile just makes up for everything.
JAN 13	Environment Friendly	Its good to love the place you live and the surroundings as well. it helps to be positive.
JAN 14	Exercising a little	This can bring the body into motion even if its just a 10 minute walk.
JAN 15	Healthy Check up	Going for routine check up helps to get to know things about the body.
JAN 16	Diet Plan	Following a healthy diet plan helps to keep the required nutrients in the body.
JAN 17	Letters to the Baby	It would be nice to journal this time around for the beautiful thoughts to flow in for the new life inside you.
JAN 18	GO nuts	Eating nuts in all forms at this stage makes the body stronger.
JAN 19	Get Fruity	Including a fruit in the meal everyday can be a blessing and build immunity.
JAN 20	Pre-Conception Check Up	It is advised to get a check up done prior to conception for the good of the baby.
JAN 21	Avoiding Caffeine and other harmful products	To prepare for the baby we need to be extra cautious of what we put into our system.
JAN 22	Prenatal Vitamins	Optional but useful addition to the diet supplementary.
JAN 23	Building Immunity	Care and measures can be taken to boost up the immunity of the mom to be.
JAN 24	Make a Routine	A nutrition full routine and healthy diet plan from the beginning helps to get into the groove.
JAN 25	Listening to Spiritual Music	This helps to be in the state of melody and help to resonate positivity.
JAN 26	Being Calm	Helps to relax and lowers the anxiety levels.
JAN 27	Having Fluids	Drinking water, juice from fruits, fruit smoothies, yogurt helps to maintain water levels in body.
JAN 28	Maintaining Weight	This can be tracked and ensured to keep as per the body mass index.
JAN 29	Informed Parent	Becoming an informed parent is important in all aspects.
JAN 30	Speak Intelligent	Our words should reflect positivity and be in more softer tone.
JAN 31	Reading Smartly	One should start reading things which help bring balance of thoughts.
FEB 1	Loving Yourself	Loving yourself is the best thing for a complete understanding of body, mind,thoughts and yourself as a whole.
FEB 2	Healthy Stocking	It is very important to keep a stock of healthy food and snack options around you.
FEB 3	Engage	Engaging in some activity can help to keep mind busy and channelize energy in right direction.
FEB 4	Make Peace	Its important to have peace inside and around you.
FEB 5	Believe in Series- 10	Believe in Good things happening for you
FEB 6	Believe in Series- 10	Believe in Hope for everything that will come for/to you.
FEB 7	Believe in Series- 10	Believe in Joy that will come and that you will spread around.
FEB 8	Believe in Series- 10	Believe in the Enchantment that will come.
FEB 9	Believe in Series- 10	Believe in the Fondness for the new life in you.
FEB 10	Believe in Series- 10	Believe in the Core Values within you.
FEB 11	Believe in Series- 10	Believe in the Family Morals which are imbibe in you.
FEB 12	Believe in Series- 10	Believe in the Understanding with your partner.
FEB 13	Believe in Series- 10	Believe in the Prayers that will make you strong.
FEB 14	Believe in Series- 10	Believe in the Holyness residing in the both of you which will nurture the new life

Ephesians 4:2 in

Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.